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I hope I have the wrong end of the stick about this, because if my hunch is right, it isn’t surprising your sister wants to stay away. I don’t know if you are consciously aware that you seem to want to be seen as better than her, but it leaks through in your email – why mention she had an unsuccessful marriage with no progeny and a business failure and that you didn’t? It feels to me that by mentioning this you wanted to prove that you are superior to her and possibly that your word is worth more than hers.

You seem to want to prove that you are the superior, sane one If you want to resume friendly relations with your sister, you need to let go of being right and of her being less successful than you. In other words, she may feel you don’t “get” her and she is frustrated. Or perhaps you deny that her experience of the situation is relevant. I’m not saying you don’t understand her – you may, or you may not – what I’m saying is that it looks to me like she may feel that you don’t consider her point of view, nor take it seriously. It seems she doesn’t feel seen and understood by you. She may also think, why should she be the one who must make allowances for cultural differences? The disagreement on the walk was probably some sort of last straw. For example, you may experience your wife as direct, your sister may experience her as rude. There has probably been an accumulation of you and her experiencing the same things differently. I’m not saying anyone is right or wrong, but she had a very different experience to you – this is what you are not acknowledging. What seemed minor to you and your friend obviously gave your sister a more charged reaction. We can each have different experiences of the same incident. Philippa’s answer If you are not going to do anything to make amends except wait for her to come round, then yes, you could accept that your relationship is over. Should I accept that our relationship is over? We have since issued a Christmas invitation, but it has not even been acknowledged. She has told others, including our daughter, that she hates both my wife and me. Her description of the event doesn’t match either mine or my friend’s.

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She replied with a torrent of vitriol, demanding an apology for my “bullying and aggression”. I emailed my sister suggesting we meet to smooth over our contretemps. My friend agrees it was a minor incident. Although strong views were exchanged, it lasted five minutes and contained no hurtful language. Earlier this year, while on a walk, accompanied by an even-tempered friend, my sister and I argued about my adult daughter’s upbringing.

We have a holiday cottage and have had many happy weekends there with my sister and mutual friends.